Tips for a First Date

A first date can be an amazing adventure or a disasterous deadend. Well it all depends on the conversation that is involved. You have to know exactly what to say on the first date and sometimes it can be hard.

There are some things you should definitely save for a later time. Just stay calm and be yourself. First off, DO NOT spend any amount of time talking about your ex on the first date.

The first date is for you to get to know each other, not for you to have a willing audience to bash your ex. Avoid talking about family problems, he/she is interested in you not your family problems at the moment, that topic is for a another time. If your date asks you about your interests and you spend all night talking about all the things you hate, you can bet that there won’t be a second date.

Keep your comments and attitude positive. You can spend time bonding over the things you hate after you have gotten comfortable with each other.

Remember don’t be shy be yourself, show some confidence. If he/she see’s that you’re comfortable around them they’ll losen up as well.

They’ll see your laid back and chill and you guys will be talking for hours.

Make sure there are no akward moments.

Don’t keep quiet half the time, say something! Shoot some random topics, but not too random to a point they’re uncomfortable. *

One more thing ALWAYS REMEMBER to MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT!